Jessa seems like such a giving, smart girl. Unfortunately my family and I will no longer watch their show due to her boyfriend's recent comments about Catholicism. My son was in tears and I had to explain to him that our religion is important too.
I am a Catholic and have always been a supporter of the Duggars and their beliefs. I dont appreciate Ben's anti-catholic bashing. Not only were the comments incorrect but it was judgmental and unchristian-like. An apology is needed.
He should apologize because it is not appropriate for a Christian to bash someone else's religion especially when he 1) does not understand Catholic teachings 2) no one is requesting him to agree with it. At the end of the day it's not anyone else's place to comment on how you chose to serve the Lord, and though he is entitled to his own beliefs, he (as a Christian) should not have gone on this rant in the 1st place. The Duggars have always been a nonjudgmental, scandal-free Christian family...but it seems as though every time Ben posts something it's extremely controversial and it's leading me to believe that his heart is not pure and that he will remain in a courtship for a long as he possibly can before proposing. After Ben posted an extremely racist photo comparing slavery & abortion, it's made me question the true feelings of the Duggar family, after all "Show me who your friends are.." , right? Of all the Duggar girls Jessa is truly a prize-she is so beautiful, strong, selfless and smart. She truly loves God and seeks his advice, and I hope that she is heeding his advice during this time with her courtship.
It's not just Ben, it's the Duggars belief, too. Josh posted very negative and anti-Catholic comments on twitter while campaigning for Rick Santorum. I wish the Duggar parents would clarify if this is just the younger generation's belief.
I do like the Duggar family, but this seems to have become the Jessa and Jill site. I am a homeschooling mother of 10 years and this site has started to make me feel sad at the vanity I see with this family.
it's pretty, It looks like there is something written in the sky. I don't think there is because on Ben's facebook page he said unedited, unfiltered but it still looks like that.
What looks like writing at the top is actually light "leaking" around the cloud. Most likely this is due to the longer exposure necessary at dusk. It really is a beautiful picture!
What looks like writing at the top is actually light "leaking" around the cloud. Most likely this is due to the longer exposure used in the lower light. Great picture!
Jessa looks goregeous!!! :D, when does the wedding episode for Jill and Derick come on? Thanks for the blog! I absolutely love it and check it every day!
I would love to read updates on the other older Duggar kids! So much lately has been Jill and Jessa (understandably so), but there is more to life than marriage and relationships. What is John up to? What about Janna? Has she completed midwifery schooling yet? What about the other Duggar kids who have graduated highschool? What kind of businesses/learning are they pursuing? I'm sure they all have plenty of interesting things going on in their lives!
Beautiful picture. Everyone is getting anxious to hear when Jessa And Ben will be engaged. Thanks for all the up dates and pictures, really enjoy hearing about the Duggars. Such a loving and caring family and great role models for young people.
I agree that it would be nice to see things about the other kids but with jessa , Ben and Jill and Derick being the ones with Twitter and integram Plus Ben's facebook page they are the one's sharing pictures and quotes publicly. and it's usually those public picture's we get to see. as far as I know and I could be wrong none of the other kids have a social media site.
I, too would like to know what the other older Duggar children are doing and pursuing for real. Are any of the boys interested in anyone special? What kind of work do they do and what will Josiah be doing now that he has graduated high school? etc...
HI Lily & Ellie! Such a beautiful pic! We haven't been hearing as much about the rest of the family lately ;), and I thought it would be cool to like once a month or something do a "report if you will" on them. Like one kid per month?! Would that be something you'd be interested in? God Bless =D ~Linzie
I completely agree that I would love to hear updates about the other older Duggar kids. I have really enjoyed hearing about Jill and Jessa's relationships but it would be really interesting to see other things as the commenter above mentioned.
Lily and Ellie, I sent you an e-mail telling you that I sent a wedding gift to Jill and Derrick with the tracking number. It got lost, I had to file for the insurance, I asked if you know if they received it. You never answered me. Please look at your emails as I am going to resend it again. Thanks, Kim
Aww . . . don't give up. It's just that they're receiving so much attention because of the recent developments. They're all still such a sweet and wonderful family.
Anonymous #1 I'm sorry to hear about your son's reaction. I was disappointed In Ben's comments as well. My kids are the only ones with our faith in their school, so it is 550 kids of one faith and 2 of another. One thing that bridges the differences in charity. My kids school is big on charity work and charity work when done from the heart does not matter what religion you are. I feel sad that Ben's first mission trip could not hae been charity focused instead of some hurtful comments. At first I thought maybe he has not been around a lot of Catholics but then I remember Michelle saying how their small town is very catholic. I hope Jim Bob or Josh talks to Ben. Rick Santorum is Catholic and the Duggars were such supporters I would think they would be very sad about Ben's words. Jessa is very pretty in this picture. I wish her all the happiness.
I think what Ben was saying was that some tenets of the Catholic faith are based on tradition, rather than being directly from the Bible. In comparing some articles of the Catechism with the Biblical teaching, there are discrepancies. I think he meant what he said to be a help to people. As a former Anglican (Episcopal in the U.S.), whose mother was Catholic, and having done a study on the subject just recently, I can attest to the fact that differences exist. I think it is important for each person to do a study for themselves, remembering the example of the Bereans in Acts 17:11, and St. Paul's admonition in Philippians 2:12.
No, he outright said that Catholics were preventing Christians in Honduras from practicing their faith. Hmm, Ben doesn't realize Catholics ARE Christians??
No he said Catholics are not christian. He acted and said the Catholics in Central America need to stop being catholic, that is the focus of the mission trip. The whole family has been saying that. I had hoped the focus was humanitarian and ecccumencal but I was wrong. I am 41 and catholic. I can accept a person not being catholic. They have less books in their bible and yes two people can read the same verse and disagree what it means. There will be differences. With hundred of denominations and thousands of home churches loads proclaim they are the ones with perfect understanding. Some look to the original language that scripture was translated from and some think 19 and almost no Latin, Greek, Arabic reading purely in English will give you an infallible understanding that others must adhere to. I have liked and defended the duggars numerous times. I guess this is a wake up call. They don't think we are all equal.
i heard the duggars do not do social media is that true? it seems that they are charging a lot over the years. and those who keep asking when ben and jessa will marry there is no rush?
I also think that the Duggars are great role models. However, admiration should never turn into idolizing people. I mean, why does the title say "The beautiful Jessa"? Aren't the other girls beautiful, too? What's the point of posting so many pictures of Jessa? Why don't we see pictures about the Duggar's going to church or meeting other christians or an update on the older kids?
For a family whose belief system isn't based on looks and outer appearances, (as they have stated), they certainly are fixed on them. Please stop making a big deal over Jessa's "great looks", as it can be hurtful to the other good looking daughters. Jessa isn't the "end all" of things here. It's quite vain and shallow to continue to comment on her outer appearance, which has changed significantly in recent time.
Please post more updates of the other children soon, especially Jeremiah, Jedidiah and Jennifer! They are the favorites in our house. We also love Grandma Duggar and would like to learn more about her hobbies and interests. She always seems so supportive and kind!
I have heard so much about Ben's comments on Catholocism, yet I was not able to find any of his quotes about the matter, nor any video. Could someone please post a link or tell me of a website where I could find it? Thank you.
A number of readers have been upset by some comments Ben is said to have made. I have not read those comments on this blog so I am guessing it was on one of Ben's social media sites. One sweet lady even expressed the personal pain these comments caused her son. Opposition and unkind remarks do hurt, but often such times can be turned into teachable moments. What a great opportunity to talk to your son about your beliefs about your faith, Consider that you can model for your son Christian charity rather than reject people who have beliefs that are a bit different from your own. Also hope people will recognize the opportunity here to broaden understanding on all sides. The remarks that Ben made have opened up some really thoughtful responses from Catholics on this blog, responses that have been focused on Catholic doctrine, personally I have found a number of the responses interesting and informative. I see no need to bash a young man who clearly loves the Lord, we are all of us works in progress. We all need compassion and patience and correction. Hopefully, all of us will learn from this incident and strive to be more Christ-like in out dealings with one another. I am LDS and know an thing or two about the misconceptions people have about my faith, and sometimes these misunderstandings can be expressed in ways that are unkind, irreverent , and disrespectful.. To me whatever insensitive or uninformed or incorrect comment this young man made has created a wonderful opportunity for growth. Peace.
Beautiful picture. I can't wait for the engagement of Jessa & Ben. Ben has really matured since the first time we all saw him on the show. Just like Jill and Derek we all hope to follow the process.
Awesome blog Lilly and Ellie :) I check every day and you always have some news. I can't wait till the new season comes out. My dream is to meet the duggars one day, but they haven't gone to Montana or Wyoming yet. If the duggars ever come up this way I would love to show them around. They would love to see yellostone and Jackson. And they could see old faithful. If you get a chance please tell the duggars that they are more then welcome to come up this way and you too Lilly and Ellie. It would mean the world to me 🌎 sincerely, Christiana :)
What about Ben being Catholic? What did he say about it? And I don't feel like there is to much vanity! I love the duggars and appreciate you guys doing this blog!
Regarding Ben's comments, I just read them, I think people should chill out and remember he is 19. If you are Catholic and offended by this fine young man, reach out and set him straight with love, not condemnation. State your case, uplift and enlighten, and let the Holy Spirit change hearts. Blessings.
I still think my not postable (?) comment is good, i.e. that this photo of Jessa shows in action Psalms 23 and 24 .
(Why post so many comments over reacting to what Ben's said, which I think was just a 19 year old putting his foot in his mouth. Look at the positive relationship the Duggars have with Rick Santorum.
My original comment about Psalm 23 and 24 was intended to glorify the Lord and Jessa and Ben as his children. My comment was praise to the Lord.
Luke 9:26 For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Father's, and of the holy angels.
It is very encouraging to see a life parallel to the Psalm 23 and 24 in one of the photos. We're here to provide you encouraging, factual information about Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar and their 19 delightful kids;
Ben quoted the bible and gave his heart...I have done the same thing on fb without naming the actual background.He's only trying to help and probably shouldn't have mentioned the actual background.I appreciate his trying to teach and straighten out something.I wish people would stop and think b4 having a fit and being offended.I come from a similiar background that doesn't teach salvation...I didn't get saved at that church but at home...haven't been at that church since.He is trying to get across to everyone that u can't get to heaven by works...only by receiving Jesus in ur heart.Time is short and we all need to get as many to Jesus as possible but only with the correct teaching.So those of u that were offended...please don't be....I'm sure he didn't mean to offend anyone...and of course don't blame the Duggars and please don't stop watching their wonderful show !God bless..a long time fan!Elizabeth A.Jones
Ben posted some insulting and untrue assumptions on his facebook. After the flack from Catholics, he cowardly deleted them. I would like to know if the Duggars themselves also believe that Catholics are NOT Christians? We are waiting to hear from them on the hard issues out there that have been asked of them...they never address these important issues. They are cowards, too, IMO. State your beliefs and assumptions for all to hear and you will at least be respected for properly putting it out there. Maybe YOU need to make some changes in your belief system and practices after hearing justification for the beliefs and traditions of other Christian faiths. There is no way on earth, IMO, that Jim Bob would ever allow one of his children to marry a catholic. However, they are open to a potential suitor converting to THEIR belief system, aren't they? They also DON'T attend church. They have made up their own church and service style on their own property and worship only with the exactly like minded few families that they can fit in the building. Nothing they do is really official at all; even their "career choices" for their children.
The dinner theater is part of the episode "A Toast to Love." The YouTube link is on our Watch Full Episodes page (http://duggarsblog.blogspot.com/p/watch-full-episodes.html).
I have watched Jessa grow into the beautiful Godly young woman she is today. I can't wait to see what kind of mom she will be. Ben seems like a great guy. I have loved every episode so far. I am in the process of reading the girls book and it has changed my point of view on several topics.i would love to meet them sometime. I am 17 now and will soon be entering into the part of my life where I will be courting. I am so proud to see the Duggar girls continuing their beliefs into their relationships with the young men in their lives.
What exactly did he say about Catholics? I'm a Catholic and I'm only 14 and I would hate to hear a CHRISTAIN say some rude about Catholics (who are also Christain), knowing that it is my religion and that someone was being offensive to me and my family.
Ben is not ready for prime time, either in the media spotlight or in marriage. His recent controversial post, photos and actions show he is really a teenager and needs time to mature. I see more future complications. He 's too young for Jessa.... wake up... plenty other fish in the sea , dear young lady.
I am currently upset for I posted a comment on Fasebook about some of the beliefs of Catholics, at least what I was taught and it got blocked! Blocked WHY?? There were not swears, no personal attacks, no ill intent, but yet it was blocked! And I cannot help but wonder if the page administrator blocked it! I think that if it is put out there then it is open for discussion! I have a lot of respect for the Duggars, but if something cannot be open for discussion then what is the point??
to anonymous 76GOD BLESS YOU anonymous 76 for speaking YOUR mind I feel the same way RAISED IN STRICT FAMILY HOME CATHOLIC! God Bless you . Anna the duggars speak famil/closeness with the Lord nver here about there families @ all siblings etc anna s.
Anonymous 76: The Church is not the building. The Church is the people. Ephesians 1:10; 4:15. Romans 16:3-5 and I and II Corinthians. So, they do attend Church.
I understand what you are saying but these ladies are an amazing testimony of the pure way to be in a relationship and it is just a season where the older girls are beginning to be in relationships. I think this show is a Godsend! I love talking to my daughter and using them as examples!
I'm glad I'm not the only one noticing this blog is only about Derek and Jill and Ben and Jessa lately. Though I'm more disappointed by the fact that all posts focus on Jessa's looks! Yes, she is is pretty, but so are the other girls. It seems so vain and honesty ungodly to focus only on outer beauty when indeed God clearly tells us not to, but urges us to foscus on being like Christ. It clearly has gone to Jessa's head. Why else post selfie after selfie. I thought in their book they said they didn't have social media accounts??? I've seen a lot of change in this family. Fame seems to be getting to them and to be honest it doesn't surprise me because that's what happens when people are put on a pedestal when in reality their no more Christian then any other believer in Jesus Christ. I say this not to be cruel or hateful, but I wish this family could see that it's not all about appearances.
I do see a lot more vanity. Lots of sharing pictures that personally, look almost the same. Just jeep them for your personal scrap book. I'm not intending to be mean, but if it was me I'm sure people would get bored quickly. Let's see new pics! There's lots of other Duggars too!
Hmmm as posted prior ... the idea Ben is not right for prime time .... is not very nice! Theoretically ANY person is right for prime time on reality television, be inclusive! On what basis should a person be excluded, that is discrimination! Ben seems like a nice enough young man. If Jessa loves him that is what is important, prime time shmime time
I agree with anonymous #62. Take this comment and turn it into a teachable moment rather than chide others for their beliefs. I love Jill and Jessa and think it is now their turn to shine. I will read as many things that are written about these girls as are posted. I know that Jim Bob and Michelle are proud of all their children and they have written about each and every one of them at one time or another. I am so happy to participate in some small way with the happenings of this family as well as the Bates family. Christian values are rare these days and their demonstration of faith and being steadfast makes me very happy. Rather than criticize why don't people try to take a good look at the imperfections of the world and try to make allowances for others and their values as well. We all have failings and no one is perfect except for our savior and even HE is non judgemental and loves each and every one of us.
Please don't stop the pictures of your draughts. Despite what others are saying your,pride for your daughters is wonderful and I certainly do understand it. Most of us know it is not vanity but pride in them and their being courting and marriage age. Each season of life is precious and I would be proud as well. Continue with the pictures and news concerning them as well as their husbands and husbands to be and don't be disheartened. I know you are not vain but just love your girls. They are all beautiful and when the next child starts to court I am sure there will lots of pictures of them as well. For everyone asking, I am sure Jessa will get engaged and married when she feels ready.
Come on people- this is America and we are allowed to do AND speak as we please. They are allowed to post pictures. They are allowed to make comments about religion and such. Just get over yourselves! The world does no revolve around you. And to those of you who think there are NO posts about the others, just open your eyes. My apologies if the regular posts made by these two awesome bloggers isn't sufficient for you.
If Ben's religion believes that we shouldn't ask anyone (on earth or in heaven) to pray with us to God through Jesus Christ, then he and the Duggar like minded should NEVER join each other in prayer. They are asking for the very same thing that Catholic Christians ask of the saints...to join us in prayer. We do NOT worship them, nor do we worship the Blessed Mother, she is honored as the chosen one by God, the Almighty Father in Heaven to be the avenue in which His son, Jesus was to physically enter the world so He can accomplish His mission here on earth. Ben and the Duggars should then always pray alone.Of course, we will never hear from any of them regardint this manner, as they never explained their association with Mr. Gothard.... do they think Mr. Gothard is more aligned with God then a 2,000 year old church that Jesus, Himself, instituted? I don't mean to be critical of any Christian church or faith, but it's more than I can say about these people. They are Christian elitists and always will be. It's a shame. The Duggars and their children all believe the same thing. None of them really respect any other faith....drawing clothes on drawings of Adam and Eve, come on, that's ridiculous. In a biblical time line, NOTHING that is inappropriate would be visible.
Anon 88 it is about what you choose to see. It is an interesting log of them together, what do you see in their faces. One picture I saw Jess was the only person not smiling, why? There is no cost for the pictures if you do not print them out. Why are you complaining?
People are not saying there are NO posts of the other Duggars, just not as much anymore as there are of jessa and Jill ( and I love these women) but sometimes a little too much is, well......I know if I posted as many selfies of myself I would feel as if I was glorifying myself. We must be careful, as in everything. JMO :-) #88 you hit the nail on the head.
To Anonymous on July 28- I believe you miss understand. They don't force their beliefs on anyone. They are praying together because they share beliefs. They wouldn't ask you to follow their beliefs. They simply share thoughts as input, which they are allowed to do (AMERICA!!), and YOU are to decide how you want to live. If you want to pray to a tree, fine! they won't force you to pray to Jesus Christ.
106 I am some what shocked at this pragmatic statement. What about the first snd second commandment? Exodus 20 King James Version (KJV) 20 And God spake all these words, saying, 2 I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. 3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me. While we may not 'judge' others Christians are supposed to share the gospel of Jesus Christ. God definitely does not bless all beliefs according to the Bible.
@Anonymous Agree..Ben is very judgmental and shows a lack of cons ideration for others that worship differently...We will not watch this show anymore as well...He should obtain more info before commenting since he is in serious error with regards to the Catholic faith.
Ben..its ok to disagree on faith matters however your comments did in fact offend me personally as a Catholic. I sum it up to a lack of knowledge you possess with regard to the doctrine of the Catholic Church. Your offensive and judgmental tone does more harm than good. Afterall, we are all brothers and sisters in our Lord Jesus...right? Would Jesus want you to offend others? You do not possess the heart of Jesus when you insist on faith traditions other than yours being wrong....Jesus does forgive you...I know that...but do not forget His commandment to Love Thy Neighbor...and this is not a good example of that.. I forgive you too...however it will be hard for me to watch the show now because somehow I get that feeling that you dislike those in different faith traditions...somehow you tolerate us?? and as for Josh Duggar..it has surfaced that he has in public said the same...hope that isn't true...In this case, the devil wins....when confusion is in the air..it tends to divide Christians. I want to be on Christ's side.... divis
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Jessa seems like such a giving, smart girl. Unfortunately my family and I will no longer watch their show due to her boyfriend's recent comments about Catholicism. My son was in tears and I had to explain to him that our religion is important too.
ReplyDeleteIt's unfortunate he doesn't understand our faith. Maybe next time he will research our beliefs rather than make an assumption.
DeleteWhat did he say?
DeleteHere is a link to what Ben said. http://radaronline.com/exclusives/2014/07/jessa-duggar-boyfriend-ben-seewald-slams-catholics-deletes-post-criticism/
DeleteI am a Catholic and have always been a supporter of the Duggars and their beliefs. I dont appreciate Ben's anti-catholic bashing. Not only were the comments incorrect but it was judgmental and unchristian-like. An apology is needed.
DeleteI agree that he should apologize. It was very unchristian like.
DeleteWhy should Ben apologize for the Truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ!
DeleteHe should apologize because it is not appropriate for a Christian to bash someone else's religion especially when he 1) does not understand Catholic teachings 2) no one is requesting him to agree with it. At the end of the day it's not anyone else's place to comment on how you chose to serve the Lord, and though he is entitled to his own beliefs, he (as a Christian) should not have gone on this rant in the 1st place. The Duggars have always been a nonjudgmental, scandal-free Christian family...but it seems as though every time Ben posts something it's extremely controversial and it's leading me to believe that his heart is not pure and that he will remain in a courtship for a long as he possibly can before proposing. After Ben posted an extremely racist photo comparing slavery & abortion, it's made me question the true feelings of the Duggar family, after all "Show me who your friends are.." , right? Of all the Duggar girls Jessa is truly a prize-she is so beautiful, strong, selfless and smart. She truly loves God and seeks his advice, and I hope that she is heeding his advice during this time with her courtship.
DeleteIt's not just Ben, it's the Duggars belief, too. Josh posted very negative and anti-Catholic comments on twitter while campaigning for Rick Santorum. I wish the Duggar parents would clarify if this is just the younger generation's belief.
DeleteVery well said Camri. God bless all people and their beliefs. It is not our job to judge others, only to love others.
DeleteAwww that's so cute!!! :)
ReplyDeleteaw so beautiful... at first I thought this might be an engagement announcement;(...
ReplyDeletePretty picture anyway:)
Do you think they'll get engaged this year?
ReplyDeleteSeptember is congrats up maybe on their year
DeleteI do like the Duggar family, but this seems to have become the Jessa and Jill site. I am a homeschooling mother of 10 years and this site has started to make me feel sad at the
ReplyDeletevanity I see with this family.
Please elaborate? Vanity? Am I missing something?
DeleteAwww! How sweet!
ReplyDeleteBen is a good photographer!
ReplyDeleteit's pretty, It looks like there is something written in the sky. I don't think there is because on Ben's facebook page he said unedited, unfiltered but it still looks like that.
ReplyDeleteWhat looks like writing at the top is actually light "leaking" around the cloud. Most likely this is due to the longer exposure necessary at dusk. It really is a beautiful picture!
DeleteWhat looks like writing at the top is actually light "leaking" around the cloud. Most likely this is due to the longer exposure used in the lower light. Great picture!
DeleteThat is absolutely beautiful!! Wonderful photo, Ben!! ;)
ReplyDeleteGod bless y'all! <3
So beautiful!! I love it!!!
ReplyDeleteJessa is stunningly beautiful inside and out.
ReplyDeleteShe's so pretty :)
ReplyDeleteAww... So sweet!!
ReplyDeleteGet married already!!!!sheesh!!
ReplyDeleteout of theme...
ReplyDeleteLily and Ellie, where can I find the whole episode of the dinner theater?
Jessa looks goregeous!!! :D, when does the wedding episode for Jill and Derick come on? Thanks for the blog! I absolutely love it and check it every day!
ReplyDeleteShe is so cool! I love her!
ReplyDeleteLily and Ellie,
ReplyDeleteHow old is Ben?
Kate
Ben is 19 or 20... not exactly sure.
DeleteI would love to read updates on the other older Duggar kids! So much lately has been Jill and Jessa (understandably so), but there is more to life than marriage and relationships. What is John up to? What about Janna? Has she completed midwifery schooling yet? What about the other Duggar kids who have graduated highschool? What kind of businesses/learning are they pursuing? I'm sure they all have plenty of interesting things going on in their lives!
ReplyDeleteAgreed!
DeleteI agree as well. The show is called "19 Kids and Counting", and they're the Duggar Family: there's more than just Jill and Jessa!
DeleteI agree :)
DeleteJessa is sooo beautiful!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wow,her hair is really long.
ReplyDeleteThat's so beautiful and romantic! !!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove you Ben&Jessa!!
Beautiful, inside and out. What a great picture. Very creative. Can definitely see God's creativity as well, never miss a sunset/sunrise!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful!
ReplyDeleteThat's sure a "heart" warming photo! Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful picture. Everyone is getting anxious to hear when Jessa And Ben will be engaged. Thanks for all the up dates and pictures, really enjoy hearing about the Duggars. Such a loving and caring family and great role models for young people.
ReplyDelete@Grace Addington
ReplyDeleteHi Grace,
The wedding episode will air this fall, along with a new season of "19 Kids and Counting."
Thanks for reading. :)
Lily and Ellie
I agree that it would be nice to see things about the other kids but with jessa , Ben and Jill and Derick being the ones with Twitter and integram Plus Ben's facebook page they are the one's sharing pictures and quotes publicly. and it's usually those public picture's we get to see. as far as I know and I could be wrong none of the other kids have a social media site.
ReplyDeleteI, too would like to know what the other older Duggar children are doing and pursuing for real. Are any of the boys interested in anyone special? What kind of work do they do and what will Josiah be doing now that he has graduated high school? etc...
ReplyDeleteHI Lily & Ellie!
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful pic! We haven't been hearing as much about the rest of the family lately ;), and I thought it would be cool to like once a month or something do a "report if you will" on them. Like one kid per month?! Would that be something you'd be interested in?
God Bless =D
~Linzie
Beautiful Jessa!!!
ReplyDelete@Anonymous
ReplyDeleteI completely agree that I would love to hear updates about the other older Duggar kids. I have really enjoyed hearing about Jill and Jessa's relationships but it would be really interesting to see other things as the commenter above mentioned.
Lily and Ellie, I sent you an e-mail telling you that I sent a wedding gift to Jill and Derrick with the tracking number. It got lost, I had to file for the insurance, I asked if you know if they received it. You never answered me. Please look at your emails as I am going to resend it again. Thanks, Kim
ReplyDelete@Anonymous
ReplyDeleteHi Kate,
Ben is 19.
Lily and Ellie :)
Very beautifully artistic!
ReplyDelete~Katie
What a beautiful picture! My family and I so enjoy watching your show.
ReplyDeleteIs Ben a catholic? That could sure change things for their relationship!! I also, would like to see some news in the other duggar kids!
ReplyDelete@Anonymous
ReplyDeleteAww . . . don't give up. It's just that they're receiving so much attention because of the recent developments. They're all still such a sweet and wonderful family.
I love the pic, Jessa is so beautiful ... So cute :)
ReplyDelete-Brittany
Anonymous #1 I'm sorry to hear about your son's reaction. I was disappointed In Ben's comments as well. My kids are the only ones with our faith in their school, so it is 550 kids of one faith and 2 of another. One thing that bridges the differences in charity. My kids school is big on charity work and charity work when done from the heart does not matter what religion you are. I feel sad that Ben's first mission trip could not hae been charity focused instead of some hurtful comments. At first I thought maybe he has not been around a lot of Catholics but then I remember Michelle saying how their small town is very catholic. I hope Jim Bob or Josh talks to Ben. Rick Santorum is Catholic and the Duggars were such supporters I would think they would be very sad about Ben's words.
ReplyDeleteJessa is very pretty in this picture. I wish her all the happiness.
I think what Ben was saying was that some tenets of the Catholic faith are based on tradition, rather than being directly from the Bible. In comparing some articles of the Catechism with the Biblical teaching, there are discrepancies. I think he meant what he said to be a help to people. As a former Anglican (Episcopal in the U.S.), whose mother was Catholic, and having done a study on the subject just recently, I can attest to the fact that differences exist. I think it is important for each person to do a study for themselves, remembering the example of the Bereans in Acts 17:11, and St. Paul's admonition in Philippians 2:12.
ReplyDeleteNo, he outright said that Catholics were preventing Christians in Honduras from practicing their faith. Hmm, Ben doesn't realize Catholics ARE Christians??
DeleteNo he said Catholics are not christian. He acted and said the Catholics in Central America need to stop being catholic, that is the focus of the mission trip. The whole family has been saying that. I had hoped the focus was humanitarian and ecccumencal but I was wrong. I am 41 and catholic. I can accept a person not being catholic. They have less books in their bible and yes two people can read the same verse and disagree what it means. There will be differences. With hundred of denominations and thousands of home churches loads proclaim they are the ones with perfect understanding. Some look to the original language that scripture was translated from and some think 19 and almost no Latin, Greek, Arabic reading purely in English will give you an infallible understanding that others must adhere to. I have liked and defended the duggars numerous times. I guess this is a wake up call. They don't think we are all equal.
Deletei heard the duggars do not do social media is that true? it seems that they are charging a lot over the years. and those who keep asking when ben and jessa will marry there is no rush?
ReplyDeleteI also think that the Duggars are great role models. However, admiration should never turn into idolizing people. I mean, why does the title say "The beautiful Jessa"? Aren't the other girls beautiful, too? What's the point of posting so many pictures of Jessa? Why don't we see pictures about the Duggar's going to church or meeting other christians or an update on the older kids?
ReplyDeleteFor a family whose belief system isn't based on looks and outer appearances, (as they have stated), they certainly are fixed on them. Please stop making a big deal over Jessa's "great looks", as it can be hurtful to the other good looking daughters. Jessa isn't the "end all" of things here. It's quite vain and shallow to continue to comment on her outer appearance, which has changed significantly in recent time.
ReplyDeletePlease post more updates of the other children soon, especially Jeremiah, Jedidiah and Jennifer! They are the favorites in our house. We also love Grandma Duggar and would like to learn more about her hobbies and interests. She always seems so supportive and kind!
ReplyDeleteI would also like to know what he said.
ReplyDeleteI have heard so much about Ben's comments on Catholocism, yet I was not able to find any of his quotes about the matter, nor any video. Could someone please post a link or tell me of a website where I could find it? Thank you.
ReplyDeleteA number of readers have been upset by some comments Ben is said to have made. I have not read those comments on this blog so I am guessing it was on one of Ben's social media sites. One sweet lady even expressed the personal pain these comments caused her son. Opposition and unkind remarks do hurt, but often such times can be turned into teachable moments. What a great opportunity to talk to your son about your beliefs about your faith, Consider that you can model for your son Christian charity rather than reject people who have beliefs that are a bit different from your own. Also hope people will recognize the opportunity here to broaden understanding on all sides. The remarks that Ben made have opened up some really thoughtful responses from Catholics on this blog, responses that have been focused on Catholic doctrine, personally I have found a number of the responses interesting and informative. I see no need to bash a young man who clearly loves the Lord, we are all of us works in progress. We all need compassion and patience and correction. Hopefully, all of us will learn from this incident and strive to be more Christ-like in out dealings with one another. I am LDS and know an thing or two about the misconceptions people have about my faith, and sometimes these misunderstandings can be expressed in ways that are unkind, irreverent , and disrespectful.. To me whatever insensitive or uninformed or incorrect comment this young man made has created a wonderful opportunity for growth. Peace.
ReplyDeleteWonderfully said. While I dont condone Ben's comments I wish people would remember that he's only 19.
DeleteBeautiful picture. I can't wait for the engagement of Jessa & Ben. Ben has really matured since the first time we all saw him on the show. Just like Jill and Derek we all hope to follow the process.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Picture.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless!
Awesome blog Lilly and Ellie :) I check every day and you always have some news. I can't wait till the new season comes out. My dream is to meet the duggars one day, but they haven't gone to Montana or Wyoming yet. If the duggars ever come up this way I would love to show them around. They would love to see yellostone and Jackson. And they could see old faithful. If you get a chance please tell the duggars that they are more then welcome to come up this way and you too Lilly and Ellie. It would mean the world to me 🌎 sincerely, Christiana :)
ReplyDeleteWhat about Ben being Catholic? What did he say about it? And I don't feel like there is to much vanity! I love the duggars and appreciate you guys doing this blog!
ReplyDelete@Victoria Just Google this name and the word Catholic. It'll come up.
ReplyDeleteRegarding Ben's comments, I just read them, I think people should chill out and remember he is 19. If you are Catholic and offended by this fine young man, reach out and set him straight with love, not condemnation. State your case, uplift and enlighten, and let the Holy Spirit change hearts. Blessings.
ReplyDeleteI still think my not postable (?) comment is good, i.e. that this photo of Jessa shows in action Psalms 23 and 24 .
ReplyDelete(Why post so many comments over reacting to what Ben's said, which I think was just a 19 year old putting his foot in his mouth. Look at the positive relationship the Duggars have with Rick Santorum.
My original comment about Psalm 23 and 24 was intended to glorify the Lord and Jessa and Ben as his children. My comment was praise to the Lord.
ReplyDeleteLuke 9:26
For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Father's, and of the holy angels.
It is very encouraging to see a life parallel to the Psalm 23 and 24 in one of the photos.
We're here to provide you encouraging, factual information about Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar and their 19 delightful kids;
Ben has a good eye for photography! Jessa is indeed a lovely girl. :)
ReplyDeleteBen quoted the bible and gave his heart...I have done the same thing on fb without naming the actual background.He's only trying to help and probably shouldn't have mentioned the actual background.I appreciate his trying to teach and straighten out something.I wish people would stop and think b4 having a fit and being offended.I come from a similiar background that doesn't teach salvation...I didn't get saved at that church but at home...haven't been at that church since.He is trying to get across to everyone that u can't get to heaven by works...only by receiving Jesus in ur heart.Time is short and we all need to get as many to Jesus as possible but only with the correct teaching.So those of u that were offended...please don't be....I'm sure he didn't mean to offend anyone...and of course don't blame the Duggars and please don't stop watching their wonderful show !God bless..a long time fan!Elizabeth A.Jones
ReplyDeleteBen posted some insulting and untrue assumptions on his facebook. After the flack from Catholics, he cowardly deleted them. I would like to know if the Duggars themselves also believe that Catholics are NOT Christians? We are waiting to hear from them on the hard issues out there that have been asked of them...they never address these important issues. They are cowards, too, IMO. State your beliefs and assumptions for all to hear and you will at least be respected for properly putting it out there. Maybe YOU need to make some changes in your belief system and practices after hearing justification for the beliefs and traditions of other Christian faiths. There is no way on earth, IMO, that Jim Bob would ever allow one of his children to marry a catholic. However, they are open to a potential suitor converting to THEIR belief system, aren't they? They also DON'T attend church. They have made up their own church and service style on their own property and worship only with the exactly like minded few families that they can fit in the building. Nothing they do is really official at all; even their "career choices" for their children.
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ReplyDeleteHi Anonymous 15,
The dinner theater is part of the episode "A Toast to Love." The YouTube link is on our Watch Full Episodes page (http://duggarsblog.blogspot.com/p/watch-full-episodes.html).
~Lily and Ellie
I just read Ben's comments. I don't think that they were hurtful at all. He has an opinion and I believe in his opinion.
ReplyDeleteI have watched Jessa grow into the beautiful Godly young woman she is today. I can't wait to see what kind of mom she will be. Ben seems like a great guy. I have loved every episode so far. I am in the process of reading the girls book and it has changed my point of view on several topics.i would love to meet them sometime. I am 17 now and will soon be entering into the part of my life where I will be courting. I am so proud to see the Duggar girls continuing their beliefs into their relationships with the young men in their lives.
ReplyDeleteWhat exactly did he say about Catholics?
ReplyDeleteI'm a Catholic and I'm only 14 and I would hate to hear a CHRISTAIN say some rude about Catholics (who are also Christain), knowing that it is my religion and that someone was being offensive to me and my family.
Ben is not ready for prime time, either in the media spotlight or in marriage. His recent controversial post, photos and actions show he is really a teenager and needs time to mature. I see more future complications. He 's too young for Jessa.... wake up... plenty other fish in the sea , dear young lady.
ReplyDeleteCan we please see how the other kids are doing and not make it just about the newlyweds or Ben and Jessa?
ReplyDeleteI am currently upset for I posted a comment on Fasebook about some of the beliefs of Catholics, at least what I was taught and it got blocked! Blocked WHY?? There were not swears, no personal attacks, no ill intent, but yet it was blocked! And I cannot help but wonder if the page administrator blocked it! I think that if it is put out there then it is open for discussion! I have a lot of respect for the Duggars, but if something cannot be open for discussion then what is the point??
ReplyDeleteto anonymous 76GOD BLESS YOU anonymous 76 for speaking YOUR mind I feel the same way RAISED IN STRICT FAMILY HOME CATHOLIC! God Bless you . Anna the duggars speak famil/closeness with the Lord nver here about there families @ all siblings etc anna s.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 76: The Church is not the building. The Church is the people. Ephesians 1:10; 4:15. Romans 16:3-5 and I and II Corinthians. So, they do attend Church.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you are saying but these ladies are an amazing testimony of the pure way to be in a relationship and it is just a season where the older girls are beginning to be in relationships. I think this show is a Godsend!
ReplyDeleteI love talking to my daughter and using them as examples!
Absolutely wonderful! Every aspect of this photo is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteI'm glad I'm not the only one noticing this blog is only about Derek and Jill and Ben and Jessa lately. Though I'm more disappointed by the fact that all posts focus on Jessa's looks! Yes, she is is pretty, but so are the other girls. It seems so vain and honesty ungodly to focus only on outer beauty when indeed God clearly tells us not to, but urges us to foscus on being like Christ. It clearly has gone to Jessa's head. Why else post selfie after selfie. I thought in their book they said they didn't have social media accounts??? I've seen a lot of change in this family. Fame seems to be getting to them and to be honest it doesn't surprise me because that's what happens when people are put on a pedestal when in reality their no more Christian then any other believer in Jesus Christ. I say this not to be cruel or hateful, but I wish this family could see that it's not all about appearances.
ReplyDeleteYes to #5, 51, 53!!
ReplyDeleteI do see a lot more vanity. Lots of sharing pictures that personally, look almost the same. Just jeep them for your personal scrap book. I'm not intending to be mean, but if it was me I'm sure people would get bored quickly.
Let's see new pics! There's lots of other Duggars too!
Hmmm as posted prior ... the idea Ben is not right for prime time .... is not very nice! Theoretically ANY person is right for prime time on reality television, be inclusive! On what basis should a person be excluded, that is discrimination! Ben seems like a nice enough young man. If Jessa loves him that is what is important, prime time shmime time
ReplyDeleteI agree with anonymous #62. Take this comment and turn it into a teachable moment rather than chide others for their beliefs. I love Jill and Jessa and think it is now their turn to shine. I will read as many things that are written about these girls as are posted. I know that Jim Bob and Michelle are proud of all their children and they have written about each and every one of them at one time or another. I am so happy to participate in some small way with the happenings of this family as well as the Bates family. Christian values are rare these days and their demonstration of faith and being steadfast makes me very happy. Rather than criticize why don't people try to take a good look at the imperfections of the world and try to make allowances for others and their values as well. We all have failings and no one is perfect except for our savior and even HE is non judgemental and loves each and every one of us.
ReplyDeletePlease don't stop the pictures of your draughts. Despite what others are saying your,pride for your daughters is wonderful and I certainly do understand it. Most of us know it is not vanity but pride in them and their being courting and marriage age. Each season of life is precious and I would be proud as well. Continue with the pictures and news concerning them as well as their husbands and husbands to be and don't be disheartened. I know you are not vain but just love your girls. They are all beautiful and when the next child starts to court I am sure there will lots of pictures of them
ReplyDeleteas well. For everyone asking, I am sure Jessa will get engaged and married when she feels ready.
@AnonymousThey are not saying that the other girls are not beautiful. That is the spin you put on it and is your interpretation and not theirs.
ReplyDeleteCome on people- this is America and we are allowed to do AND speak as we please. They are allowed to post pictures. They are allowed to make comments about religion and such. Just get over yourselves! The world does no revolve around you. And to those of you who think there are NO posts about the others, just open your eyes. My apologies if the regular posts made by these two awesome bloggers isn't sufficient for you.
ReplyDeleteIf Ben's religion believes that we shouldn't ask anyone (on earth or in heaven) to pray with us to God through Jesus Christ, then he and the Duggar like minded should NEVER join each other in prayer. They are asking for the very same thing that Catholic Christians ask of the saints...to join us in prayer. We do NOT worship them, nor do we worship the Blessed Mother, she is honored as the chosen one by God, the Almighty Father in Heaven to be the avenue in which His son, Jesus was to physically enter the world so He can accomplish His mission here on earth. Ben and the Duggars should then always pray alone.Of course, we will never hear from any of them regardint this manner, as they never explained their association with Mr. Gothard.... do they think Mr. Gothard is more aligned with God then a 2,000 year old church that Jesus, Himself, instituted? I don't mean to be critical of any Christian church or faith, but it's more than I can say about these people. They are Christian elitists and always will be. It's a shame. The Duggars and their children all believe the same thing. None of them really respect any other faith....drawing clothes on drawings of Adam and Eve, come on, that's ridiculous. In a biblical time line, NOTHING that is inappropriate would be visible.
ReplyDeleteAnon 88 it is about what you choose to see. It is an interesting log of them together, what do you see in their faces. One picture I saw Jess was the only person not smiling, why? There is no cost for the pictures if you do not print them out. Why are you complaining?
ReplyDeletePeople are not saying there are NO posts of the other Duggars, just not as much anymore as there are of jessa and Jill ( and I love these women) but sometimes a little too much is, well......I know if I posted as many selfies of myself I would feel as if I was glorifying myself. We must be careful, as in everything. JMO :-)
ReplyDelete#88 you hit the nail on the head.
Sorry honey, but they DO respect others.
ReplyDeleteBen's words, "I have nothing against individuals who are Catholic". There you have it. Stop worrying. Everyone has their own opinion
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ReplyDeleteI believe you miss understand. They don't force their beliefs on anyone. They are praying together because they share beliefs. They wouldn't ask you to follow their beliefs. They simply share thoughts as input, which they are allowed to do (AMERICA!!), and YOU are to decide how you want to live. If you want to pray to a tree, fine! they won't force you to pray to Jesus Christ.
Do tHe duggar girls Have any advice on courtship Other than what is in their book? Or the time leading up to courtship?
ReplyDelete106 I am some what shocked at this pragmatic statement. What about the first snd second commandment?
ReplyDeleteExodus 20 King James Version (KJV)
20 And God spake all these words, saying,
2 I am the Lord thy God, which have brought thee out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage.
3 Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
While we may not 'judge' others Christians are supposed to share the gospel of Jesus Christ. God definitely does not bless all beliefs according to the Bible.
@Anonymous Agree..Ben is very judgmental and shows a lack of cons ideration for others that worship differently...We will not watch this show anymore as well...He should obtain more info before commenting since he is in serious error with regards to the Catholic faith.
ReplyDeleteBen..its ok to disagree on faith matters however your comments did in fact offend me personally as a Catholic. I sum it up to a lack of knowledge you possess with regard to the doctrine of the Catholic Church. Your offensive and judgmental tone does more harm than good. Afterall, we are all brothers and sisters in our Lord Jesus...right? Would Jesus want you to offend others? You do not possess the heart of Jesus when you insist on faith traditions other than yours being wrong....Jesus does forgive you...I know that...but do not forget His commandment to Love Thy Neighbor...and this is not a good example of that.. I forgive you too...however it will be hard for me to watch the show now because somehow I get that feeling that you dislike those in different faith traditions...somehow you tolerate us?? and as for Josh Duggar..it has surfaced that he has in public said the same...hope that isn't true...In this case, the devil wins....when confusion is in the air..it tends to divide Christians. I want to be on Christ's side....
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can't wait for more
ReplyDeleteGreat family! Yet to many kids , but stil kind heart and giving!
ReplyDeleteGod bless y'all! <3